Respect.....

A few male coworkers of mine had asked me my opinion on a subject they were discussing, so I agreed to give my 2 cents.  I was asked that if I were married and I woke to my husband having sex with me and me saying to stop is this considered rape even though your married.  I responded with a very loud, "Absolutely!"  Another man responded very loudly, "No!"  I asked him what his grounds were for thinking this way and he said because my wife knows to never say no to me if I want sex just like I know not to say no if she wants it.  me:  okay, so the two of you have something worked out together then, but I'll be damned if you walk away with your penis intact if you were to ever force yourself on me.
It irritates me how men think that just because they are married that they jerk their wives around like rag dolls and treat them with complete disrespect.  They wonder why us women are so strong and independent now.  Cause they can't act right and someone needs to put them in their place.

Men and women need to respect one another.  We have all come a very long way to just be shut down over some stupid ignorant power struggle that nobody will ever win.